From the morning radio alarm to the well-after-dark return of the Lafayette city flag to full staff, yesterday was full of acts of remembrance of 911. Everyone was trying hard to make sure that what they said and did was meet, fitting, and proper--and almost everyone succeeded.
There was one kind of act of remembrance that I found particularly affecting: those that started out to be about something other than 911, but turned out to be about 911 after all. The finest examplar I have seen comes from Tom Maguire:
Posted by DeLong at September 12, 2002 11:05 AM | TrackbackA Personal 9/11 Observance
Severe windstorms are buffetting the New York City area, knocking down trees and power lines in the outlying suburbs. Although Utility crews are doing their best to keep the streets clear, driving on suburban streets in these conditions can be treacherous.
A tree had fallen just down the street from our house and was blocking a well traveled intersection. Only yesterday I had been clearing some branches around our yard with my eight year old son. Seeing the downed tree, his first words were, "Hey, Dad, we can clear that tree".
Hmmm. Cars squeezing by, high winds that could knock more branches onto our heads - don't they have people who do this for a living? On the other hand, could there be a better day to celebrate the power of individuals rallying to help the community? "Sure, kid, let's go for it". So, we donned some brightly colored clothing, gathered our saws and clippers, and set off down the street.
Now, for those of you who have not tackled this sort of project with an enthusiastic eight year old, there are a few simple rules: the saw you are using is the saw he needs; when you pick up the clippers, he was just about to use them; and the branch you are cutting is the one he was planning to cut. Master these rules, harness the energy, and marvel at the result.
The two of us had this tree outnumbered. My son cut and moved branches. I spent some time rescuing people from burning buildings, and some time fighting alongside my fellow passengers in the aisle of a hijacked plane, but mostly I cut branches too. Soon enough, the tree was a jumble of wood by the side of the road. Some passing morotists honked and waved to thanks us. Hey, some people got home one minute sooner because of our efforts. I give my son a big hug for a job well done. This is a day of hope.
Yes. Let us not let he political hijacking of 9/11 obscure the fact that this tragedy did bring out the true colors of many in America. It's good to see people at work to help their community. Yes, this nation is made up of a miriad of beautiful individuals. It's all up to each of one of us after all...
Posted by: Jean-Philippe Stijns on September 12, 2002 11:49 AMhttp://www.nytimes.com/2002/09/10/health/psychology/10CASE.html
When Grief Takes Hold of the Body
By ROBERT KLITZMAN, M.D.